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Just as exercise works for your body, exercise can work for your face when you use your thumbs and fingers to anchor those tiny, hidden muscles. Without using anchoring techniques before you contract the facial muscles the movement is ineffective.
Anti-aging skincare is more sophisticated than ever but there is no product in today’s market that you can slather on and see measurable lifting, tightening and toning of the features. Maybe in the year 2026 this will become a reality as experimentation with stem cells increases and other scientific ingredients are developed.
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Over the course of learning the process you will see your face refine, tone and firm with noticeable results almost immediately. What could be easier? A natural facelift that returns the youthful face you thought you had lost forever.
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Anti-aging has been with us for years and years. Think Ponce de Leon in the 16th century looking for the Fountain of Youth – in some ways we’re still looking even though in the last one hundred years we have been bombarded with products and services that promise us we’ll remain youthful for a very long time but have you found the one that works for you?
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Qilu network March 31st news reporter from the Shandong provincial government information office, 2009 year Shandong tax hundred enterprises list formally announced this morning.

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egg price reached 5 yuan per catty, pork prices high...... Prices rise to people's "vegetable basket" bring pressure, Shandong provincial finance department also introduced a number of measures to actively respond to. Reporter recently learned from the Provincial Department of finance, since this year, Shandong province finance focuses on the maintenance of price stability,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], raise funds in various ways,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], ten measures to cope with meat,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], egg, vegetable prices,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], support to ensure market supply food basket product.
in response to the rise in the price of pork, the full implementation of the subsidy policy can be complicated sow. According to the standard of 100 yuan per head, on the farms (households) breeding sows subsidies, subsidies funds shared by local finance, the effective protection of the fan can sow productivity, stabilize hog production.
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therefore, the provincial finance have emergency funds allocated 203000000 yuan. Continue to implement the fan can sow insurance premium subsidy policy: according to the standard of 48 yuan per head subsidy, governments at all levels to meet the conditions of the fan can sow insurance premium subsidies, the provincial government to give appropriate subsidies,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], farmers' participating enthusiasm, reduce the risk of breeding sows.
to prevent and decrease the production ability of agricultural products because of pests, Shandong province to strengthen the prevention and control of animal and plant diseases and insect pests. To raise funds 288000000 yuan,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the use of binding and city funds, compulsory immunization of major animal diseases including pig,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], poultry, the need for immunization of pigs slaughtered by the subsidy standard of 600 yuan per head increased to 800 yuan, the grass-roots animal epidemic prevention staff subsidy standard increased to not less than 1200 yuan per person per year.
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But seriously, what kind of disasters are we talking about, you ask?
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Digital radio the fastest in November launch of Hong Kong people to buy the radio
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the television and entertainment licensing management director Liu Mingguang (left), Deputy Secretary General of city managing director Ma Jiansheng, commerce and economic development bureau chief Xiao Rubin, assistant to the president of Hongkong, Yu Ying, Phoenix radio digital founder Zheng Jinghan. Ming Pao in Hongkong on 25 March,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and the government yesterday released officially licensed 3 commercial radio: Hongkong digital broadcasting (formerly known as the Tao hung, Metro Radio Broadcast) and Phoenix delight, providing digital sound broadcasting services in Hong Kong,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], together with Hong Kong and Taiwan, there will be 18 channels, tentatively the fastest in November 1st synchronization operations. But the people to listen to the need to acquire digital radio,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], digital Hongkong founder Zheng Jinghan said, is developing a retail price of less than 150 yuan of digital radio, feasibility and the rest of the 2 commercial radio on free "pie".
3 licensed commercial station yesterday
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Jin Yong received the achievement award disclosed next restart the industry write swordsman
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Jin Yong is the University of Cambridge doctorate, specializing in the history of Tang dynasty. Hongkong on 14 March, / Wuxia writers, contemporary writers,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], news and political critic Mr. Jin Yong awarded photos,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], won the 2008 "World Chinese lifetime achievement award".
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Since only one of the North Korean shells fell in South Korean waters, the Marine Corps' Yeonpyeong unit fired three shells under new operational guidelines stipulating that return fire should be at least three times more powerful than the attack.
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Consumers should be well aware that the debit card and credit card are two different cards and the former should not be confused with the later. The main difference is in the process of their transaction and protection that is available for the cardholders. Both of the cards have their own benefits and flaws. Therefore, there are certain places where you should not use your debit card.
Here are the following places where you should not use the debit card:
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5. Make cash payment on your hotel bills otherwise you might have to deposit money with the hotel. If you damage any property of the hotel owner then the money will be deducted from the deposit amount,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. If you use your debit card then the hoteliers can directly deduct the deposit from your account as they have an access to it.
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These are the five points that you need to keep in mind before you take out your debit card. You should remember that if you are not sincere to manage your debit card then you might lose your hard earned money. You should follow the above mentioned points to avoid trap of the fraudulents,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
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Arguing over who has a better idea or who is right won’t get anyone anywhere. All that will create is more conflict. By agreeing to disagree, each one is afforded a form of respect.
An introvert-extrovert relationship can be quite exciting. However, just like any other relationship out there, it has its ups and downs. The techniques suggested above may or may not be the cure all that you’re hoping for; but it will at least,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], diffuse some of the conflict.
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Introverts may be quiet, but they also tend to be more detail-oriented. Because they’re less likely to draw attention to themselves, they might see things that other people normally miss.
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Extroverts, on the other hand, may have less time for reflection. Perhaps introverts could help them find a little bit of peace.
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Is there a way to keep conflict under control in such a situation? What can people do to manage an introvert-extrovert relationship? To learn about a few helpful suggestions,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], read on!
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Tip # 2: Understand Each Other’s Weaknesses.
Support is very important in any kind of relationship. Introverts may be less likely to mingle around at a party,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], so extroverts should help draw them out of their shell and introduce them to other people.
Begrudging as that may be at times, it’s still better than having to fight with each other when there's a difference of opinions or beliefs.
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When you begin a new relationship, it’s natural to have lots of boundaries, and they’ll be firm. Over time, trust supplants the need for firm boundaries. As you slowly build trust, your boundaries will soften a bit.
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I’m speaking here about integrity. In order to be in integrity, your external boundaries will correspond with your internal boundaries. The behavior you stand for—and won't stand for—in yourself and others matches.
Here’s a common example. Let’s say you have a boundary that your partner can’t yell at you under any circumstances. But at the same time, you think it’s okay for you to yell at them, if you can justify it (well,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you provoked me with your snide comment) or rationalize it (hey, I had a tough day).
My growing-up experience was common in our society. I learned to put up walls as the only way to keep others from taking too much from me too often. The implication is that I can’t trust you, so I have to protect myself from you.
But when my self-confidence was weak, I didn’t think I had another option. Nor was I fully aware of what I was giving up. Indeed,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], my walls effectively prevented me from enjoying the richest of human experiences: true intimacy.
The average person has at least a few incongruous boundaries. With some self-reflection, you’ll spot the inconsistencies between your internal and external boundaries. As I say over and over, awareness is 85% of the gig. It’s a pretty simple process to choose a more congruous action once you clearly see what you’re doing.
When you practice setting a boundary with your loved ones, you’ll begin to balance giving to others with giving to yourself.
But our society trains us to have a big blind spot here. It’s easier to judge the inappropriateness of others’ actions than to look closely at your own contradictions. The downside is, any time you don't take full responsibility for your actions, you lose integrity.
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The more calculated risks you take,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the more likely you are to get the outcome you want: the joy of deeper intimacy in all of your close relationships.
• You have a habit of agreeing immediately
• You like accommodating others
• You truly want to help those you care about.
With every risk you take, you’ll learn more ways to have the kind of relationships you want—thus skewing the odds more in your favor with each subsequent risk.
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If you don’t have healthy boundaries, you’ll allow others to take too much from you too often. You’ll also be clueless about when to stop giving to others, until you get that familiar feeling that it’s gone too far.
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And—bonus!—your confidence will grow every time you consciously choose to act in accordance with your integrity. Indeed,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], creating boundaries that maintain your integrity is the highest form of respect for yourself and others.
You can learn how to set boundaries around what you can’t,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], don’t want to or aren’t willing to give.
As opposed to impenetrable, titanium-clad walls, healthy boundaries are both flexible and permeable. They allow you to build deep, rich relationships at your own pace.
Feeling overcommitted is a signal that you have a weak (or nonexistent) boundary. Usually it’s because you don’t know how to say no,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], or you don’t feel strong enough to stick to your guns. If this is the case, eventually, you’ll put up walls to protect yourself.
The profound joy of deep intimacy is the payoff for not ignoring, but learning how to manage the risk of being rejected. The most poignant, challenging aspect of relationships is developing the ability to be ever more vulnerable as intimacy deepens.
And if you fear being seen as aggressive or selfish, you’ll hesitate to ask for what you want. Ironically, the walls that were built for protection can become a prison. No one gets in or out.
If your deepest motivation is to avoid rejection, you’ll settle for safe,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but superficial relationships. However, you’re not stuck with just two choices: avoid rejection or go all-in.
Flexible boundaries make true intimacy possible. Without a process for easing ourselves into vulnerability, no one would be willing to risk it—no matter how cool it sounds.
With time and a little practice,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you’ll find your balance. You’ll learn how to say no and make it stick. You’ll master the skill of making a request without manipulating, demanding or coercing compliance—or feeling guilty, either.
It follows that your own behavior will match the limits of the behavior you’re willing to tolerate from others. Setting boundaries starts inside.
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The downside is,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], walls keep everyone out all the time. The price I paid for walls was way too steep. I experienced only a limited connection with others. With walls up, I was never fully “seen” for who I was, nor could I deeply know my loved ones.
Your life will feel of balance. Instead,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you’ll find yourself swinging back and forth between resentment (not getting enough) and guilt (not giving enough). But there’s a third, more powerful choice: set firmer boundaries.
Let’s connect the dots between how you set boundaries and how you get your needs met. In other words, how you balance your needs with others’ needs.
The first step is to pinpoint what keeps you from saying no when you mean no. Perhaps you won’t say no because:
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You’re able to really open up and be deeply intimate only when you feel safe and trusting. So you can use healthy boundaries as a tool to build your capacity to embrace and enjoy ever-deepening levels of intimacy.
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The more you do these three things, the more successful and happier you and others will be. But first you have to translate the ideas and meanings of these things into actions that get results. Here are some suggestions on how to do that.
LAUGH
Fortunately life is much more unserious than it is serious. Hardly a day goes by in which there isn’t something you can find to laugh at and if you aren’t finding those things, you may be missing a third of the enjoyable part of life. Sometimes you have to look past the burdens,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], problems and tragedies that do happen, which do deserve tears rather than smiles, in trying to see some good happening from all the bad things that you want to run from or avoid altogether. And sometimes you just have to make some laugh time with jokes, funny videos, humorous stories or an entertaining trip to the zoo,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], in order to get back to the less serious, main part of life, work and relationships.
Loving actually involves a lot of different things like being patient, compassionate, creative, empathetic, understanding,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], kind,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], polite, sensitive, generous, and tolerant. Of course what you expect is usually what you get and so again the betting person would prefer to expect love in return for the love he or she practices with others. And when that doesn’t happen for one reason or another,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it isn’t a sure sign that it is bound to happen again. After all, we are bound to make mistakes but we don’t have to be bound to those mistakes we make.
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And for those readers who are still vain, we now know for sure that smiles use less muscles and cause less wrinkles than frowns. Besides that, people who have made it to their 50th wedding anniversary,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], report that the few common denominators of success include a sense of humor. In conclusion, someone once said to me, ”Don’t take life too seriously, because after all,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you are not going to get out of it alive!”
Living means letting go and trusting life to take you where the whole flow is going in the long run. The more “safe space” you put in between you and life,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the less success and happiness you have in hand. That doesn’t mean you should be reckless and impulsive, but rather just more spontaneous and a little less controlled and certain. The natural inclination is to test the waters by sticking the tips of your toes in first, but that often involves a hesitancy in trusting life to reconcile the difference between where you think you want to be and where life knows you need to be, in order to see how to be genuinely successful and authentically happy in a perpetual, rather than ephemeral sense.
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Live, Love & Laugh
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“When done correctly by individuals, living, loving and laughing greatly improve the quality of life for humanity.” ~The author.
Loving requires adopting a loving, accepting and understanding attitude towards all of life and then applying it everyday in dealing with difficult people, problems and adverse situations, especially when you may not feel like it. It is easy to love lovable people and things, but learning to love the unlovable people and things is where the most growth and enjoyment comes from. The more effort you put into getting rid of natural resistances to do this, the bigger the payoff.
By William S. Cottringer, Ph.D.
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The most successful and happy people let go and take chances, maybe with one eye still open. They get enough information and make the best choices and decisions to act on that information, without second guessing themselves or having definite expectations that over-flavor or limit the outcomes they get . A tentative approach to living opens the door to much more enjoyment than being over-certain about what is going to happen. In reality, you never really know until it happens. And if you avoid the artificial categorizing of things into good/okay or bad/not okay, anything and everything that happens is okay, in effect doubling your happiness and success. Those are excellent odds, no matter what you are betting on.
There are two most important things to remember about love: (a) it is an active verb not a passive noun, and (b) it is the positive opposite of its negative counterpart—fear. Life is actually very simple in this regard: Fear brings failure and unhappiness, and love brings success and happiness.
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God's love is our own example; we feel that Jesus' sacrificial act was the greatest display of love ever revealed by a single person. In a very special way it opened the door for God's spirit to enter more fully into this world of women and men who carry within their souls, bodies and minds the capacity for becoming lovers for life. In fact, Jard has been instrumental in developing two programs,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], one for ministers and another for lay persons that applies practical faith, hope and love in one of the world's fastest growing Christian denominations. These two programs have been instrumental in helping lead millions of African, Latino, European and Asian men and women into a covenant relationship with the God of the Cosmos. And God alone knows where this shall go in the next decade. Because moving toward spiritual maturity means so much to us, Jard feels that contribution to faith, hope and love is his most valuable contribution to society.
Actually, the Catholic Church’s position about celibacy for the clergy is enforced only among European, North American and Asian priests. The point is often moot across the southern hemisphere, because the vast majority of Latin American and African priests are either married with families or in permanent relationships with mistresses and the children they conceive together.
It was as if God was saying;
We all long to hear that our sexual disorders are not really disorders, that the simple yearning to be righteous makes it so. That would quickly eliminate the struggle to mature spiritually from our lives. But to do that would mean that our souls were not to be taken seriously -- that the revelation of Christ doesn't lead to better lives. The church cannot accept this -- not even in the name of compassion for those who are in error. No good is served when we abandon the old Truths about the role of conception in lovemaking, of love bringing about the creation of new life to glorify God.
Sexuality is completely normal and spiritual and the more some fearful fundamental and orthodox radicals condemn lovemaking,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], except to produce children to labor in the mines, mills and fields of a global market world, the more clearly psychotherapists see their selfish defense mechanisms. Many do indeed protest far too much. We do say this, however.
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Of course, perceptive women and men have always been filled with awe by the miracle of conception and birth. The creation of life is indeed almost beyond comprehension to most of us -- so much so that every society and religion has surrounded the birth of children with many myths, traditions and ideologies to explain that which was very difficult for them to understand. Virtually every society has, as Sigmund Freud wrote so perceptively, developed a great deal of squeamishness, anxiety and neuroticism about human sexuality. There is something about lovemaking that both fascinates and terrifies a great many persons and leads to major frustrations and perversions that many unfortunate people never overcome. Some of those fearful souls become clergy or theologians who ponder what God wants from us -- and reach answers according to their unconscious needs and conscious justifications.
One Catholic philosopher we know recently wrote about sexuality -- including homosexuality and contraception.
We have found in our research that the greatest problems faced by women and men are caused by the fact we are spiritual souls with a great capacity for love and self-sacrifice, woven into a primitive homosapien bodies hobbled with narcissism and capable of great rage, violence and selfishness.
We, Roberta and Jard who collaborated on LOVERS FOR LIFE, write with values that in our case are distinctly spiritual. And while this isn't a religion course but our marriage enhancing program, there is no way we can deny our faith without compromising our message. Indeed, we cannot ignore our covenant connection with the Creator of the Cosmos. We believe that God is the source of all love and while love obviously existed for women and men many millennia before Jesus' great spiritual revelation,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], that mission was to most clearly reveal God's love for humans and to demonstrate our human potential for love.
Unless, of course, you actually believe Satan still sleeps with women in order to turn them into witches who are then recruited to damn holy men of the cloth to the flames of hell.
The worst of the lot fear and hate women,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], resent them and detest their own sexual needs that make them vulnerable to any woman they love. They are trying very hard to block women from breaking free of their restrictions, just as their fathers and grandfathers in the religions tried desperately to block the use of contraception, the right of women to vote, to work outside the home and in places like Iran and Saudi Arabia to learn to read and write and to drive an automobile and to choose her own husband. Orthodox Catholic, fundamental Protestant, orthodox Jew and reactionary Muslim men are especially determined to keep women in a subservient relationship with God and his especially blessed rulers -- they themselves. Of course, they lay all the blame for their wicked pettiness toward women on God -- whom they insist tells them he wants women barefoot and pregnant,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], subservient and meek and always available sexually to they, themselves.
The psychopaths rationalized that God distrusted women as the carriers of sexuality as much as they themselves did. Haven't religious reactionaries always confused their own fears with God's will? Didn't Jerry Falwell and Bob Jones spend the first fifty years of their lives insisting that God had made black Christians inferior to white Christians and thus must be segregated lest the pure white race be contaminated by black evil? Sexual love was seen as a weakness caused by the sin of Adam and Eve. Since the Medieval period, much of the church has taught that sexual intercourse was the forbidden fruit that caused alienation from God in the Garden of Eden and insured our inevitable death as punishment for their sin. What a monster this makes God -- what a perversion of love.
I gave humans a hunger for joyous sexuality and a yearning for love and then forbid them from satisfying this powerful drive. I created this clever double bind as a means of testing their obedience to my commands.
We both are covenant Christians but never Victorian prudes for whom any departure from radical assumptions is an adequate reason for punishment -- preferably a public flogging -- from self-righteous and reactionary pulpits across the land. We, ourselves have had rollicking sex lives for half a century and recommend it most highly. We don't care -- let the hypocritical and primitive blue noses call us a dirty old couple for enjoying our love,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], we have an even lower opinion of their sexual neuroticism. Of course we wouldn't have titled our book about marriage LOVERS FOR LIFE had we not believed that God's ideal for each couple is a permanent union that matures from youth through all of life and on to the elderly years with even deeper love. We believe that sexual love and our reproductive capacity are spiritual gifts that are best shared with one very special person within a life-long commitment. We understand and accept that for many reasons marriages fail and both men and women move on, doing the best they can to settle into a new relationship that offers them the love and satisfaction each person deserves. It is total lunacy for any neurotic bully within the church to teach that a pair of kids must remain lonely, loveless and celibate for the next fifty years because they made an unfortunate marriage when twenty or twenty-two years of age. God has never limited us to one roll of the dice at love that is blessed by the church -- and even if we mature along the way, must live a loveless life forever after. That truly is psychopathy disguised as spirituality regardless of how well concealed by a Medieval sexist theology.
For example, some earlier neurotic clergy of the Christian church internalized into their theology and traditions a twisted hatred of women and a deep, dark disgust with their own sexual needs. Around the year 1000 a clutch of psychopathic theologians and bishops were so fearful of women that they banned them from every aspect of leadership and public worship. In their quest for congregations that paid and prayed and obeyed -- they drowned and butchered and burned at the stake thousands of women whom they insisted had become witches by fornicating with Satan. The Devil must have been very busy,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], must never have taken a night off as he bounced from bed to bed of women eager to doom their souls to eternal punishment in return for a quick lay with the master demon!
Human sexuality is God's great psychospiritual gift to loving women and men who mature beyond narcissism and selfishness, who open their arms and hearts to each other as lovers for life. Unfortunately, sexuality is also a common weapon of choice that is used by twisted and wicked psychopaths who neurotically fear and hate women, especially those they cannot dominate.
If, as the connectional covenant religions teach, humans are called by God to serve one another in love, a great many of us fail in our selfish attitudes and choices. The strengths and shortcomings of human love is revealed in our attitudes, expectations, beliefs and choices. Actually there is much more to each person than these bodies that can bring us such enchanting relationships when joined with a lover. What we do with them is crucial to our happiness. The way our bodies evolved through the long eons is important to us. What we think about them and how we use them is critical and how we express our love is especially vital to our contentment.
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Nevertheless, they believed that God still hated sex and distrusted women who carried sexuality in their bodies, but he would allow it as a concession to human weakness. After all, not everyone could be as holy and as chaste as God's priests. Especially not women.
Of course we believe that God's ideal is one of commitment and love -- reflected by monogamy within that permanent relationship.
All primitive, pre-industrial and pre-fossil fuel societies, needed strong young workers so badly that they reached conscious and unconscious decisions about the responsibilities of women to the tribe or clan that are pointless today, even though fundamental religious leaders assume they still are important. Since so many laborers were needed to do the unending labor of survival and many soldiers were needed to protect the workers from raiding tribes, virtually every primitive clergyman and theologian in Christianity, Judaism and Islam developed the belief that God created women to be expendable. At a time when half the children died of starvation and disease before they could be turned out to work, the important people, the decision making men, decided it was better that women remain pregnant for twenty years, even if they died with a fifteenth child, rather than the tribe be endangered by a labor shortage. Since women were expendable, they were obviously second class souls who must be restricted in their education, their influence and in their careers, so they could remain brood mares for the clan. This was seen as their God given role to the society, each of which believed that it had a lock on God. And since the basic role of fundamental religion is to block change in every way possible,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], to preserve the good old fashion religion forever, every generation from time immemorial; has tried very hard to keep women from breaking free from the old ideologies and theologies with which the primitive priests and theologians justified the abuse of women.
Having said that, we must also tell you that we are deeply disappointed by the failures of fundamentalist Christianity, Islam and Judaism that enforce sexist neuroticism, cruel traditions and immature religious ideologies on women and then claim their crippling psychopathies are God's will for everyone. God wants no such thing -- but what really angers us about such reactionary pretension is its hypocrisy. As researchers, counselors and teachers, we know all too well that the fundamental power brokers who want to dominate your spirituality have the same sexual yearnings as the rest of us. Need we go beyond T V preachers Jim Bakker who was long seducing his young secretary and James Swaggert who paid prostitutes to let him watch them masturbating. Consider the heavy penalties some Catholic dioceses are paying because neurotic priests,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], because of the pressures caused by abstinence and the loneliness it causes, seduced trusting boys and girls. Can anyone really believe that their life-long celibacy had nothing to do with the disasters that followed?
Men and women are mirror image souls who need one another for fulfillment -- for intimate caresses through the long nights of winter, for the yin and yang of masculine and feminine strengths,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], for perpetuating ourselves immortally through our children. Our precious bodies fit together so well that Jesus called lovemaking becoming one flesh -- as indeed it does in many different ways during loving sexual relationships when two otherwise barren persons join to create the miracle of new life.
Thus, as it always happens, the nature of Christ's revelation of love for women as well as men has been distorted and debased by a narcissistic male aristocracy within the church and through each secular society. From the very beginning of the Christian era, men with religious and political power immediately began shaping the church and its theology to meet their own needs. When the rich estate owners needed farm workers to plow the fields and harvest the crops, the church soon agreed and began teaching that human sexuality was legitimate only if we paid the piper with a new child to work the aristocracy's estates. When slave trading and owning was a common abuse of black humans, the clergy of Dixie fell right into line with the slave traders and owners. There was hardly a single group within Colonial America that didn't profit from the slave trade so, of course, expedient preachers in fundamentalist churches had to bless and justify the wretched business. The reactionary church still blesses every war that secular rulers begin and always send their young men to kill other young men and to die horrible deaths to profit the society. For sixty years the church -- Catholic, Orthodox and Fundamental Protestant, taught that the Cold War was a struggle between God and Satan. Of course, it was really a desperate struggle between two great financial,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], political and industrial systems for dominance around the world. Every intelligent person sees that now -- but the reactionary church for reasons of its own soon turned the Cold War into a great spiritual crusade being fought by God's holy people. Actually, both Roberta and Jard have trouble seeing Chase Bank and Wells-Fargo -- or General Motors and Standard Oil as great spiritual entities doing God's work for humankind!
No good is served if we internalize Medieval psychopathy in 21st century theology and demand that couples obey a clutch of sexually frustrated men who pretend God lets them make the rules governing our sexuality without ever playing the game! Great family disasters are formed when theologians insist that women are little if anything more than brood mares to their men and the church.
Both the Pope and the Curia have lost that battle and they pragmatically tolerate it. They must, for their entire program would collapse should they enforce the rules -- the priests would leave their parishes to care for their families. Somehow we cannot see the sexually reactionary portion of the church changing much of anything without a revolution by religious women who demand equality in which they are truly valued as first class persons. Women cannot force the reactionary primitives to ordain them -- in every reactionary religious group the old boys control the machinery, but more than ninety-six percent of English speaking Catholic couples of child bearing age use contraception to space their pregnancies. The intelligent and educated women of the West -- through Europe, America, Canada and Australasia have opted out of producing floods of ragged kids they can neither feed nor educate, to work in the fields for the nobles and to fight the aristocracy's wars. They have sense enough to know that playing Vatican Roulette condemns themselves to perpetual baby making and poverty rather than enjoying satisfying lives of their own. That is, assuming one hasn't been abandoned by a macho husband who has run away to San Francisco to find himself, after giving her six children in seven years to support without any earning skills.
Certainly, pretty women must obviously be witches, the neurotic priests reasoned, for they would walk by and smile and the men would be sexually aroused by the way their breasts and buttocks moved. Such lust couldn't possibly come from within themselves, they assumed -- they were priests, they were holy and sanctified servants of God! Such sinful feelings had been overcome by the Holy Spirit when a man took his holy orders! They rationalized that their lust had to come from the outside, as spells cast on them by the satanic witches who were seeking to seduce men in order to drag their souls to hell with themselves. Better slay such evil women as quickly as possible rather than to risk one's own salvation. The Medieval church, with all its fears and frustrations, fell to the slaughter with an eager will. We shudder to think how many friendly, compassionate women of grace and beauty were murdered to justify the psychopathy of neurotic men with the power of life and death over their parishes.
To which we add that we cannot see that a woman who brings twelve to fourteen children, into an often hungry world before she dies during her last childbirth, is glorifying God. His rationalization expressed the theologian’s sexist views lingering from the Medieval Era. To which Jard adds:
We accept that this psychosexual union most persons crave should be open to new life; is most satisfying with children, grandchildren and in our case, with great-grandkids! But we really didn't want to be over blessed with offspring every time we shared sexual pleasure in the past half century! To satisfy our curiosity we once calculated that there have been some 5,000 times one of us has reached for the other with carnal intent and ended up sleeping in one another's arms, deeply contented,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], both going off to work the next morning with a smile on our faces and a song on our lips. Jard had no intention of keeping Roberta barefoot and pregnant all our lives and she would likely have strangled him had he tried! We are convinced -- the religious assumption that any expression of sexuality that blocks conception is an affront to God and the church -- is pure neuroticism from the sick minds of those Medieval scholars who corrupted the church's beliefs about sexuality during the Dark Ages of Europe. We understand how difficult it is for fundamental and orthodox clergy to accept women as equals without ripping theology, methodology and traditions out by the roots. Much of the church is trapped by its ancient view of women and sexuality.
Great problems arose -- the neurotic bishops couldn’t monitor every bed -- they learned in the confessional that the peasants were still weak -- confessing their sins of the flesh, accepting their penance and going right back to the marriage bed. Since something must be done, they decided that God and themselves who spoke for him, could bring himself to tolerate sex but only if it included the possibility of conception. They had to allow some sex for obviously, the prohibition of sex couldn't be complete or else the human race would vanish in one generation.
Women are still devalued and debased; condemned to second class citizenship as not one woman in the huge Catholic and Orthodox movements has been admitted to priestly leadership. In primitive Islam any woman who shows a modicum of interest in anything from voting to driving a car or in limiting the number of children she shall carry, is punished. The Southern Baptist Convention of some fifty thousand American congregations automatically cast out each of the sixty odd churches that recently defied the Convention’s order against ordaining women preachers. The Missouri Synod Lutheran councils have only recently decided that under some circumstances women can vote on congregational issues. In contrast, we are pleased that our own denomination is now ordaining as many women as men. In fact, the United Methodists have become a refuge for the best and brightest young women from the reactionary groups. We gain their best and brightest, for we will ordain and hire them and set them out doing God’s work. Even some of our bishops are women which drives many reactionary clergymen wild when they must work with them on community issues.
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As I look back over our lives, one of us had to be the last to go of the four siblings. Everything happened exactly as it was destined; I am the one most able to cope. They always told me I saw the world through rose-colored lens. That is so true and I am glad that I do. I can always find that silver lining. During this holiday season my gratitude is a multitude when I think of how my mother has been spared the grief of losing her beloved and favorite sons. I am reminded of how blessed I am to have my own good health, the love and support of my three sons, and the sharing of so many friends and loyal clients.
David, my youngest brother by eight years, had quadruple by pass surgery and was given instructions how to alter his lifestyle in order to extend his life. In the meantime, I moved my mother to live with me in California. She loved and hated me for doing it. She needed and wanted me near her,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but on her own terms. She wanted me to move back east to Tennessee. She had never visited me in California because she was afraid of flying; however, at this time I forced her to fly, explaining it was the expedient way to get home. She enjoyed that flight immensely! She talked about it for months!
Houston was very emotional during this period of David’s dying and death. I believe he was more afraid for his own life, given the state of his health. It was impossible for me to talk with him rationally about David’s death, without him breaking down and crying uncontrollably. After radiation treatments, he was told he was tumor free, but they would test him at three month intervals. He resumed his beloved clock restoration and repair activities, but at a slower pace.
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I take comfort in believing that all four of my late family members are now onto great new adventures.
In the short span of five (5) years I have witnessed the death of four (4) of my closest family members. Two of them died between Thanksgiving and Christmas. One died shortly after New Year’s Day. My father died forty one (41) years ago, one week before my 25th birthday. Add it all up and you get my age. I was the person who took care of all of his funeral arrangements, including visiting the morgue to give instructions for his haircut style. No one else in my family was emotionally strong enough to handle such details. My father’s death had been sudden; he contracted pneumonia and died the same day he was admitted to the hospital. His death certificate read “pneumonia and complications”. I believe to this day he received an overdose of pain medication as witnessed and reported by his hospital roommate.
I was not prepared for the call I received on December 3, 2007. It was his wife, Denise stating that Houston had been hospitalized for kidney failure. At this point she was hopeful that his kidneys may start working again. It wasn’t to be, the tests showed the cancer had returned with a vengeance and had already moved to his liver. His death was imminent. He departed this life December 12, 2007, less than two weeks before Christmas.
Shortly after her death, David went through a horrendous depression. He had taken our mother’s cane home with him and sat it in a place where he could see it everyday. He said, “Each time I look at that cane I see that “old woman”. That is how he referred to her in person, lovingly of course. She called him “young man”. He said, “I miss her so much”. He deteriorated to the point of not answering his phone and just seemed to set out to “self-destruct”. He drank alcohol, smoked, and did all the activities counter to an extended life span.
My mother was actually quite healthy; at 89 years of age she was taking no medication,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], negotiating stairs to her bedroom and even preparing her own oatmeal for breakfast. She insisted no one could prepare oatmeal as she did. Now, how difficult is it to cook oatmeal? Nevertheless, the point is she was mobile and independent. She had been living with me approximately 1 year and eight months; when on that crisp November morning,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I did not hear the TV in her room blasting at 7:00 AM. I never asked her to turn it down as I felt she needed that volume to hear it. I went to her room and asked if she was okay. She said, “Yes, I will be up in a few minutes.” What seemed like several hours passed and she still was not up, but she continued to say the same words. I really became concerned when I went to her room for her laundry. I asked if she had any dirty clothes in her closet. She responded with “Are you washing anything wet?” This alarmed me because even though she was 89 years of age, her mind was still very sharp. I said to her you’re not getting up because you’re not feeling well, right? Then I noticed her breathing was somewhat labored. I became anxious and called an ambulance. A diagnosis came after several hours in the emergency room: she had early onset of pneumonia. They wanted to keep her overnight to monitor to make sure she was getting enough oxygen. She was continuously pulling the oxygen drip from her nose. She absolutely hated the idea of being in the hospital, overnight she became so upset she suffered a stroke. Her vital signs went wacko. They wanted to do a MRI to determine damage …she was so afraid and was trying to get off the trolley as we took the trip to the lab. They told me they needed to give her a mild tranquilizer because she had to be perfectly still in that chamber (for the test). I will never forget her words, as I tried to calm her and hold her at the same time, she said “Get me out of here, you are killing me!” Later, that same weekend, she suffered a heart attack.
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My two brothers did manage to get to California to see her before she left. I believe she waited because I would say to her everyday “Houston and David will be here to see you soon.” She would always smile at that. She slept away the day after they left California.
I thought,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], “God is this some kind of test?” It has just seven (7) months ago that David passed away and it is Christmas Time to boot. I am saddened, even though intellectually in each situation I know and understand that it was impossible for either of them to continue to live,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but I will still miss them. After all, these are the people I have known and loved my whole life. Why is this happening to me?
There is never a good time to say goodbye to a loved one, but death of a family member during the holidays seems to deal a triple whammy!
As second to the oldest of my parent’s four children, I think I was born old, thus an “old” soul. After my father’s death, I became the caretaker of the family (of sorts). I was always the one with the solid, sound advice. I prevented my dating age sister from ruining her life with a married man, even when it meant I had to beat her up to stop her from going out.
My sister was the first of the siblings to leave (die) five years ago. She had led a sedentary life, smoked and had bouts of depression. She suffered a stroke in her early sixties from which she never recovered. The disability of the stroke led to an assortment of other illnesses and eventually she died shortly after New Year’s Day 2002. My mother was very angry with everyone, including God. She exclaimed, “If he (God) was going to take her, why didn’t he take her as a baby?” My sister’s death was a prelude to my mother’s decline and to “add insult to injury” her youngest son (my youngest brother) suffered a massive heart attack just three months after my sister’s death. I prayed “Please, David cannot die at this time, my mother cannot handle it.”
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Over one weekend stay in the hospital, my mother had gone from a mobile,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], independent, sharp tongued woman to a sullen, dependent invalid. She started refusing all nourishment and medication. She died within two weeks of entering the hospital. The date was November 18, 2004. One week before Thanksgiving.
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